I read the bulletin that she posted and it was about what names she should have for the baby that she was having.I finally got fed up with her lies after 10 long years, and told her that I thought it would be best if we didn’t see each other anymore.I still sometimes think about how it would have been if I didn’t forgive her, and I think that I would have had a big guilt trip over my shoulder. Just remember, even though someone can be horrible to you, and lie to you.
She was suppose to be my best friend, but I thought that it was very odd how she would ignore me for 2 weeks at a time for no apparent reason, she would tell me that she was “in her own little world” and she didn’t feel like talking to anyone, but I was the only one who she didn’t talk too.
Even after all of that, I was still there to forgive her.
Forgiving Is The Key I’m sure people have heard the saying “To forgive but to not forget.” To me that’s just another way of not forgiving someone, because it’s keeping the past in your thoughts.
Forgiving someone is a big step in life, especially when someone has done something horrible to you, but it’s the right thing to do.
I personally thought that she would tell the story the exact same way she told me the year before, but the story that she described the second time was completely different from the first one.
Even though she lied about getting raped, I was there right by her side to forgive her.
It was during the summer that we stopped talking as much as we used too because she lied to me about being pregnant twice to my face.
When I found out the first time I confronted her and she told me that it was a lie to get a girl jealous, I thought it was a excuse, but I believed her, later on that week, she posted a bulletin on a website called “Myspace”.
Keeping score of old scores and scars, getting even and one-upping, always makes you less than you are.
“I can forgive, but I cannot forget” is another way of saying “I will not forgive.” Forgiveness ought to be like a canceled note- torn into two and burned up so that it never can be shown against one another.